With this I do not mean that the problems are going away to vanish like by magic art. For more information see Jeff Gennette. The form in which you react to the different challenges is going to change totally. The capacity to be optimistic serves to us as weapon to overcome the difficulties. When we felt like in control and people in charge than it happens to us, we see the bad moments like opportunities to grow. The writer James Allen said many years ago, " The circumstances do not make the man, revelan." You can say to me: You say this because the poor man does not know who I am, how miserable has been my existence, I I have passed many things in this mundo." You do not worry about in what stage of the life you are now.
Your present does not say anything of where you are going to be tomorrow. Unless you accept what it happens to you, you can be the architect of your life. It grows and it arrives as far as you want. Doctor Deepak Choprah said in one of his books: " If you have money and your attention he is always in the amount of money that you have or whatever you are going to need, you are a person pobre". I can guarantee to you that if you transform yourself into a prosperous person, are going to be glad, successful, healthful and you are going to have money: You are going to bring order and harmony to any area you need where it. The adversity forges the soul, without it last it matters it that it has been the way. All we have fallen more in one go and I include/understand that the unique way to know the difference between a victor and failing is having lost more in one go. You do not accustom to medirte by the times that you fall but by that you rise after each fall.